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The connection chat is an opportunity for us to connect. To see if we resonate with each other - because at the end of the day, I WANT you to show up for yourself. In this opening session we explore how I can be of service to you and to discover what it is that truly lights you up in the world and make it your reality. This is a great introduction to what you can expect out of our coaching container.

Originally written 19th October 2023. I’ve always known that somewhere within me I am a perfectionist – no matter how many times or often I have denied it. In that denial, I am cheating myself out of an opportunity. An opportunity to complete something and bask in the reward of that potential success. Instead, I am currently realising I am surrounded with nearly finished projects (and there are a lot of them) purely because the perfectionist in me did not want to share until it is complete = in my mind perfect. The truth of many of these projects is, they are already complete and to an outsider completely unaware of my inhibiting perfectionism would wonder why I was holding such a good thing back. A question was proposed to me by a peer coach, “is being a perfectionist holding you back from success and where you want to be?”. It felt like such an uncomfortable question to answer, because the truth of it is, I am. I am creating a limit, an unachievable expectation for myself. I am straight up from the beginning, setting the intent that whatever I set my mind to is realistically never going to be completed. You could delve deeper into the why of that thought, yet that is a conversation for another time. I feel like even acknowledging that has been the process of my thoughts is a bigger breakthrough. To shift my focus to complete a task, rather than concerning myself on the outcome. Regardless of an outcome, the importance is on the lessors learnt in the journey. This reasoning also brought me to a thought I had heard in another conversation, “we are conditioned to fight for our limitations”. Referring to the fact that we are rarely offered the opportunity to completely dream without limitation. We’re often suggested that “the sky’s the limit” – that saying it itself suggests you can only go so high in your ambitions – not even contemplating that there could be something beyond. But we are also encouraged to be prepared. That any venture without adequate planning and preparation is likely to fail or only go so far. Consideration for any unknown variable is removed from the equations. It is from this thought belief and conditioning that I am working towards unbinding. An encouragement to surrender to whatever the moment presents and rather than acting accordingly, or to a limited ideal, it is to fully give in and experience – to participate. Without holding perfectionist limitation. For the majority of conditioned beings experiencing life today – they will make a held judgement within the first 10 seconds, there is no thought to ‘is it finished / unfinished?’ or even room to be aware of the thought – those judgements come through completely unfiltered. It’s considering that now – why am I so bent on trying to hold sway in those 10 seconds? It’s knowing that – it either resonates, or it doesn’t. To those that it does – they are my people. They are the ones that will still be paying attention regardless of the level of perfectionism involved. When frequencies are matched – that is all the perfectionism that is required. How does perfectionism resonate and manifest within you? And what are you willing to do to pivot from those thoughts? Peace, Sharai x

There's a lot to bring in to perspective with the NEW ARIES MOON, and with the pairing of the solar eclipse this will heighten it all. It is time to prioritise your healing processes, reminding us that becoming aware of what's asking to be healed, witnesses and felt is the only way to move on without compulsively repeating the past. This is one of my favourite spreads for the new moon - an insight to EMBRACE + LET GO. TO EMBRACE TEN OF CUPS To see a TEN OF CUPS is to indicate a true emotional fulfilment - in particular the loved ones around you. Embrace the harmony that finds itself in your life, bringing joy into alignment with your hearts desire. The strength of cups reflects an intuitive maturity, flow, healing, cleansing, a sense of creativity and inner knowing. Embrace the moments about to unfold. TO LET GO KNIGHT OF WANDS - Reversed Wands are associated with the element of fire - a masculine energy and appears in a reading as a response to spirituality and purpose. Now is the time to let go of anger and the lack of direction you've been wandering, you've been running from committing and approaching your dreams with impatience. Be fearless and charge ahead, but be sure to find the balance in the in-between. These a reminders to allow thing to breakdown so you can experience the breakthrough, this will then lead into the catalyst for a significant shift in awareness and your own consciousness.

An insight to the year ahead - 2024. At the beginning of every year I take the time to sit down and reflect. To breathe in and accept the year that was, to breath out and set the intentions for the year to come. I write out my intentions, keeping them brief and then take the time to dive into the deeper. I find what resonates and determine what my theme/word of the year will be. To assist in refining all of that, I create a 16-card reading. 12 cards to reflect on an insight for each month of the year and 4 focus cards for the year. As you can figure - each number represents the month. i.e. 1 = January. These are all arranged just like the hours on a clock. The 4 focus cards can be anything - but the key is to determine them before you pull your cards. In my set up - the represent the following: A) The card of the year - OVERALL THEME B) CHALLENGE of the year C) LESSON of the year D) The DREAM MANIFESTATION In this my annual reading - I like to mix it up with more than one deck and in the choosing, it is purely intuitive. Featured in the reading below there are 4 decks I have chosen from. The Healing Waters Oracle - Rebecca Campbell The Sacred Forest Oracle - Denise Linn Dreams Of Gaia Tarot - Ravyenne Phelan Sacred Rebels Oracle - Alana Fairchild Now here is a detailed look into the insights received from each card. JANUARY - "Let It Rain" - Allowing What is. Inevitability. Trust. - Healing Waters Oracle What are you being called to surrender to? Surrender to what is happening in your life. What has been building up is preparing for a big release and right on cue the down pour will begin. Sweet relief will be felt when the waters of the sky return to the ground. FEBRUARY - "Earth Spirit" - Stability - Sacred Forest Oracle Be present in the moment. Slow down and let go of the businesses and frenetic pace of life. Explore your roots. Honour your past. Go deep. The Earth Spirit is here to support you and hold your love, even if you're not sure of it. The seeds you plant now will bring abundance in the future, but only if you take the time to nurture those new beginnings. MARCH - "The Youth" - #3 Major Arcana - Dreams Of Gaia Tarot A time of influence, of emotional energy, unconscious thoughts and beliefs and how they work to manifest the future. Live free of fear and doubt, allow the rise to a future that is both productive and creative. Life is too short to follow in another's footsteps and do things their way. Do it yours > tomorrow can take care of itself. APRIL - "Inspiration" - Sacred Rebels Oracle Be available to receive, trust what has come through. You are a vehicle for inspiration - act accordingly. Commit to development of your idea and sweet success like abundant honey will be coming your way. Be encouraged to accept the vision, idea and inspiration > it is important to your creative and spiritual growth. MAY - "Ten of Earth" - Dreams of Gaia Tarot Have you embraced the highest of ideals - to lead a fulfilling life doing something you love and to know and understand your place and purpose? Show your true self. Whatever the challenge might be, you will find your centre and move forward in a fearless manner. All aspects of life are coming together as a whole and all are in harmony. This is a time of reward for all the years of dedication of service to family, career and community with love, respect and trust. It is a reflection of what is felt within. JUNE - "The WellSpring" - What are you thirsty for? Body care. Take a breath. - Healing Waters Oracle Where are you pushing yourself beyond your limits? We must embrace our humanity and take care of the body by slowing down, quenching our thirst, and finding ways to recover and deeply rest. Look where you have been going into overdrive, work to bring more harmony and balance back into your life and trust your inner seasons. JULY - "Five of Earth" - Dreams of Gaia Tarot Where ever the deception lays at this time, there may be some basis for your doubts and questions. Your inner voice is telling you to look closer and see beyond selfish desires and blame so you can perceive the truth. Be honest with yourself, or heartache and disappointment may well follow. AUGUST - "Come to Life" - Sacred Rebels Oracle The real you speaks through your rebellious sacred heart and is living your life, not the monkey mind. You need a deeper connection to your own instincts, body, feelings and intuitions so that you can receive your new calling. You can trust in it too. Embrace it and it will embrace you. You are the most sacred of all sacred artworks and you are bringing yourself to life. SEPTEMBER - "Bear Spirit" - Healing - Sacred Forest Oracle You're a healer and a channel for the life force of the Universe. You are strong and grounded. Healing is unfolding and the situation is being resolved. Have faith all is well. Healing IS occurring on all levels, and can come in many forms. Be ready to accept it. As you heal - you will be a healing force for others. When it comes to tanks, don't fret on the how, simply say "you're welcome". OCTOBER - "Frog Spirit" - Renewal - Sacred Forest Oracle Be prepared and willing to release any preconceived notions of how life should unfold. This is a time to be adaptable. Be willing to change; abundance and good fortune will follow. Symbolising renewal, resurrection and transformation. Speaking of a profound restoration of your life is occurring, a reminder that it's never too late to begin again. In order to reboot your life, you need to do things in a different away. NOVEMBER - "The Pink Dolphin" - Celebration. Fun. Unbridled Joy. Open Heart. - Healing Waters Oracle. It's time to welcome more joy into your life. Open your heart and mind to new experiences and prioritising happiness and fun. Play like a child without attachment to the outcome. DECEMBER - "The Word Wants to be Written" - Sacred Rebels Oracle What you are is within you and wants to come out of every available opportunity. Allow the space for it to manifest and let the energy flow. Let go of the idea that you need to search for your path - you activate it by getting out of the way. It's time for you to be naked with yourself, acknowledge how gorgeous you are. What you want to create, wants to be created. THEME OF THE YEAR - "Planetary Wave" - Soul Mission. Trust the Inner Coil. Soul Team. - Healing Waters Oracle Trust the current of your own river and to answer the call deep within. Call in the ones who get you. Realise you are part of a larger team. Your mission - is to keep doing what you are called to do. Your soul chose to come into this body, on this planet, at this moment in time. THE CHALLENGE OF THE YEAR - "Eleven of Water" - Emotion / Intellect - Dreams of Gaia Tarot Suppression and expression - fear and love. What do you find yourself leaning into? If you express instead of express, you will move through life with more ease. It is better to be proactive and mindful when it comes to your emotions. Never ignore them. The challenge will come in balancing and aligning any emotional disharmony that may influence your choice and environment. LESSON OF THE YEAR - "Queen of Water" - Dreams of Gaia Tarot Take heart and know that brighter days are ahead. A reminder to have and maintain healthy boundaries to protect yourself from becoming drained. Believe in the power of love, but also the wisdom that comes with it. Relationships need to be nurtured and maintained, knowing that honesty is okay, as is a willingness to share our feelings. Sharing our true feelings can make ourselves feel vulnerable, but in doing so, it shows courage and strength. THE DREAM MANIFESTATION - "Elves" - Playfulness - Sacred Forest Oracle Embrace your innocence. Let go of heavy responsibilities. Give yourself a break. Nurture your spirit by doing something fun! Joy is important for sustaining yourself as the food you eat. Allow your inner child to play. If your responsibilities and hard work have clogged your life force energy, it's time to give yourself a break and have some fun. Nurture your spirit. The greatest gift that you can give the world is your joy, so make play a priority. When you play > you will find flow. I would love to know if any of the months themes have resonated with you thus far and how they may resonate with the months to come. Peace + Love, Sharai xx

Connect with purpose through owning unique one-of-a-kind works, consciously designed merch or with presence through conscious conversations for wellbeing, soul alignment, creative business development and the seeking of own truths. My VISION is to be a manifestation of my heart - the visual outpouring and communication of my soul. The collaboration of my creative being to the voice that speaks with spirit. LIGHT OF RAI + it's collective spaces is a true and authentic representation of my inner dialogue and the intuitive wisdom it has to share. Connect with purpose through owning unique one-of-a-kind works, consciously designed merch or with presence through conscious conversations for wellbeing, soul alignment and the seeking of own truths. CREATIVE COACHING What is Light of Rai? Well… I’m Light of Rai! Rai is a shortened version of my name, Sharai, and I am a multifaceted and multidimensional being. I am a natural-born creative, as well as an advocate for wellness and alignment between all versions of ourselves. I am a crystal lover, serial crafter, dreamer, chaser of the sun and moon, and seeker of knowledge and growth. I truly believe that I am a princess of the Sun (loose translation of my given names) here to serve the collective. To bring and shine the light, the sunshine into the hearts of those around me. And through sharing ALL of my passions, that is how I am here to serve. Why share the journey? It is a question I can imagine many are thinking whenever they come across a blog post or an article. Like you, I am sure whenever you have stumbled across a meaningfully written piece, that in some way or another there is an element of a lasting impression. My reason for sharing, is because I believe in sharing a voice, even if the perspective may be different from your own, sometimes it is that differing perspective that can allow and open your own heart for growth. I often reflect on my journey and realise that I wish there was somewhere I could have found key advice on how to approach the life situations I was experiencing. Things like, journal prompts, conscious meditations, mindfulness activities, and offered tools to assist in overcoming my own self sabotaging. Sometimes even just knowing that another soul has gone through a similar experience, can feel incredibly supportive, comforting and less lonely. It can even be the catalyst that leads to searching for further help. Thus, what has led me to write my own blog and publicly share all the motions I have moved and will cycle through. Offering my insights to how I have overcome that ‘stuck’ feeling and facilitated finding balance, alignment and purpose within my own being and my journey in this story we call our existence. PIVOTING FROM PERFECTIONISM 3 min read NEW ARIES MOON + SOLAR ECLIPSE 1 min read Break The Chain + Remember Your Dreams 6 min read The journey to finding self starts with surrendering. Check out the CREATIVE The latest additions to the CREATIVE fruits and venture that is Light of Rai - available in the shop. Mushrooms In The Night Price AU$25.00 Tulip 10/13 Price AU$35.00 Tulip 1/13 Price AU$25.00 Tulip 13/13 Price AU$25.00 Tulip 12/13 Price AU$25.00 Tulip 11/13 Price AU$25.00 Tulip 9/13 Price AU$25.00 Tulip 8/13 Price AU$25.00 Tulip 7/13 Price AU$25.00 Tulip 6/13 Price AU$25.00 Tulip 5/13 Price AU$25.00 Tulip 4/13 Price AU$35.00 Tulip 3/13 Price AU$25.00 Tulip 2/13 Price AU$25.00 Summersus -V.2 Price AU$400.00 Summersus -V.1 Price AU$400.00 Shop All and Share the Journey Contact

FAQ's of Soul Coaching in Business What does a Soul Coaching in Business session look like? As an introduction to Soul Coaching in Business, I offer an in-person presentation. This involves your key players, or all of your team, depending on the size of your business. We go through what is “Soul Coaching in business” and how it not only can be beneficial to the business, but the individuals that are employed who make up an integral part of the business. We investigate what Dharma Archetypes™ are and how they help identify what our purpose and key desires are. In this section, we undertake the Dharma Archetype Quiz™, ranking each archetype and then delving deeper to discover how each archetype can relate to our personalities, how we show up in the world, job roles and day-to-day tasks that we find pleasure in and enjoy doing. We look further into personality make-up with the Human Design tools. This can be incredibly insightful to some as it provides an understanding of how an individual will interact and respond with others and the environment around them. We discuss how having a level of understanding and knowledge about an individual's personality needs and traits can best support them to bring their applicable passions to roles within the business, ultimately making them your best asset. Struggling to engage your team within the business to be productive? A common thought crossing many leaders minds right now. How can you engage your team to be more productive? Well, it starts with honestly getting to know your team. You know the basics, their name, their family, what car they might drive, where they live and maybe even what they got up to on the weekend. Yet do you know what makes them tick? What are the activities and tasks that really excite them? Everybody has their calling and purpose to everything they do. And it does not look the same for everyone. Some tasks one person my despise, another may absolutely love. It is a matter of understanding the people already within your business and finding that spark that lights them up. Once establishing this understanding, you will know how to attract the right people for any future roles that arise – making recruitment a lot simpler. Personality quizzes like Enneagram, Dharma Archetype™, Human Design are all tools used to discover the elements of which makes a person be who they are. How can you best support your business further? After engaging with an introduction to Soul coaching in Business, you may feel adequately equipped to make changes within your business to put some of the learned information into play. Most however, find that this is the beginning of change within their business. To support your business further, means supporting your team who make up your business. You can offer alterations to role positions and agreements that are inclusive of their key passions and drive to purpose. Other alternatives are engaging in group coaching sessions, face to face or online dynamic, offering to fund 1:1 coaching session, personal development courses and time to encourage growth within the role. It is well known within industry that if you can inspire your people, offer support, and acknowledge needs on an individual basis that the perception within the business creates unbound loyalty and retention, which then directly reflects in the community. Something to consider, what have you go to lose by engaging with the people who power your business? It sounds like woohoo, spiritual, hippie BS. To some, it may. But if it can improve the successes of your business, does it really matter? The way we engage in business is constantly changing, and this also includes the way we engage with people. As a whole, we are craving more community led businesses. Business that actively take an interest in their people as well as their customers. People not only want to know about the ethics behind a business's operation, but they also want to see it. Feel the energetics of it. With the clear establishment of social media – the community will do their research first before engaging with a business. So, what does your community engagement say about your business and the people involved? Are they happy? Is there a clear definition of expectations? Flexible options for work/life balance? Could they see themselves being a part of the community? There is great insight to be learned from the experience of knowing your people on a soul level and providing them with the tools to know themselves. If you can provide your business with empowered, confident, soulfully aligned individuals, imagine the applications that would have? Not only would your people be higher productive in their job roles – the atmosphere of the environment would be one of enthusiasm, appreciation, and joy.

Ever sat with your feelings and wondered what it was all for? This is the stage of finding your soul purpose where the self-awareness begins. Where you might start to reflect upon the path you have walked this far, where you start to turn on the spot and look toward endless opportunities that lay in front of you. It's not about shining my light to brighten someone else's shadows. It is a coaxing and encouragement that we each have our own light within us worthy of having its own moment. Coaching with me is about bringing forth which already exists within you. It is finding the inner wisdom that exists deep in our souls and bringing forth the knowledge that we can truly achieve and dream of anything we put our mind to, as well as acknowledging that the inner and outer workings of our body and mind work best when in alignment. I don't imagine myself being a guru, a healer and sometimes even a coach. This place here is where I share my stories and lay the groundwork for familiarity and building connections of trust. I am here to create tangible conversations, that reflect back what you might not see in yourself. To build the confidence in trusting your own intuition to assist you in finding the right questions to ask for the answers you seek. To be your champion, your personal cheerleader to encourage you to chase your creative ideas. Coaching can be a lot of things - a thing that ultimately comes down to the desire you wish it to be. Every coach is going to have their own methods, approach, stories and focus. You may even find yourself engaging in multiple coaches at one given time to fill the gaps where another does not fill. And coaching with the same coach is unlikely to be forever. Over time we as coaches and our clients are destined to grow - and akin to everything that grows - we can expand and overgrow from the containers in which we started from. Following from that thought, when we do flourish we should also allow ourselves to be aware of our surrounding environments, with the realisation that some things cannot be forced. If you're not feeling it, you're not feeling it. This is where it takes courage to trust in your intuition and reach deep into those feelings. Maintaining appointments for the sake of going through the motions do not do anyone any favours, least of all yourself. Your energy is sacred and worthy of respect. Allow yourself to be honest in each session you show up - even the days you questions whether you truly don't want to show up. This is the time to sit with the thought as find the reason why? Is it your ego creating fear of reaching new ground and passing previous thresholds? Or is simply because there is no honest connection? With these questions alone, is the reason why I offer "connection chats". An opportunity to connect with the only commitment being your time. If any of this is resonating with you and you wish to engage with my coaching services - reach out below. Grow Your Vision Ready to build confidence in trusting your own intuition? Book in for a FREE 30 minutes Connection Chat. Book Now So why the focus on COACHING FOR CREATIVES? Every CREATIVE deserves someone championing their dreams. Being a creative myself (and a perfectionist in that) self criticisms can be our own undoing. In this coaching container, I am here to be the reminder that you don't require permission to find joy in what you love - just courage to chase the dream. It is about finding that spark within you, that flare that just "clicks". Forcing creative desires can feel like an endless cycle of perfectionism and not truly connecting to your inner self - THIS is about finding connection through intuitive practices and aligning mindset that feels natural.